You’re on a decent wage, maybe $60k, maybe $80k, and somehow you’re still checking your bank app like it’s a horror movie. Rent’s due, the car needs fuel, lunch was “just a quick one” that cost $25, and payday feels a long way away. If you’ve ever run out of money before you run out of week, you’re not alone.
This article is a simple, practical reset. We’ll focus on the three big costs that decide whether you get ahead where you live, how you get around, and what you eat, then show you how to turn the savings into something real: an emergency buffer first, and a house deposit plan after that.
No perfection required. This isn’t about never buying coffee again or living like a monk. It’s about setting a better trajectory, small changes that add up, week after week, until your finances finally start moving in the right direction.
The $60k–$80k reality check
What your pay packet actually has to cover
On paper, $60,000 to $80,000 sounds like you should be fine. In real life, that money gets carved up fast. Tax takes a bite, then the basics move in and take over.
Most weeks, your finances are decided by three big costs:
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Rent or mortgage: the biggest line item for most people, and the hardest to dodge.
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Transport: car repayments, fuel, insurance, rego, servicing, parking, or public transport fares.
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Food: groceries plus the sneaky extras like takeaway, “quick” lunches, and delivery fees.
If those three are chewing up most of your income, you can feel broke even when your salary says you should not. That’s the trap. It’s not always a discipline problem. It’s often a maths problem.
The goal isn’t a perfect budget. It’s surplus cash every week.
Forget the fancy spreadsheet that lasts three days. The goal is simpler. You want a consistent gap between what you earn and what you spend. Even $150 to $300 a week changes everything because it gives you options.
Surplus cash is what pays for an emergency buffer so a flat tyre or a surprise bill does not wipe you out. It’s what becomes your deposit plan. It’s what turns “one day” into a timeline.
So instead of trying to be perfect, focus on one question: what can I change this week to free up cash next week? That’s how you shift the trajectory.
Housing first: make rent cheaper without hating your life
The 30% rule and why it’s harder than it sounds right now
A common guide is to keep housing costs under 30% of your take-home pay. It’s a neat rule, but it’s getting tougher to follow with rents climbing and vacancy rates tight in many cities.
Still, it’s a useful benchmark because it forces an honest look at the biggest lever in your budget. If rent is swallowing 40% or 50% of your income, saving becomes a grind. You can cut coffees and cancel streaming services all day, but it won’t compete with shaving $200 a week off housing.
The point is not to hit a perfect number. The point is to stop rent from owning your whole financial life.
Flatmate maths: what an extra $200 to $300 a week really does
This is where the boring option can be the smartest one. A flatmate, a share house, moving slightly further out, or choosing a smaller place can free up real money fast.
Here’s what a weekly surplus looks like when you actually add it up:
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$200 a week becomes about $867 a month, or roughly $10,400 in 12 months
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$300 a week becomes about $1,300 a month, or roughly $15,600 in 12 months
That’s not pocket change. That is emergency-fund territory. That is “first chunk of a deposit” territory. It can also be the difference between feeling stuck and feeling like you’re finally moving.
And the best part is this lever works every week. One change in your living setup can keep paying you back without needing willpower every day.
The ego check: space, postcode, commute, peace of mind
This is the trade-off no one loves talking about. You can usually have two of these three: location, space, price. The third one has to give.
So ask yourself what matters most for the next 12 to 24 months.
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If you value space and calm, a slightly longer commute might be worth it.
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If you value time and convenience, you might need a smaller place, or a flatmate.
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If you value privacy, you might accept a cheaper suburb or a tighter budget elsewhere.
There’s no right answer. But there is a wrong one: pretending nothing can change, then wondering why you never get ahead. A rent decision is not forever. It’s a season. Choose the setup that gives you breathing room now, so future you has options later.
Transport: stop bleeding money on the “wrong” car
Car loans are often the silent budget killer
A car can feel like a necessity, but the money drain is usually bigger than people expect. It’s not just the repayments. It’s the interest, the insurance, the rego, fuel, tyres, servicing, parking, tolls, and the random repairs that show up at the worst time.
When you finance a car, you lock yourself into a fixed weekly cost for something that drops in value. That’s why it stings. The payments keep coming even when your budget is already tight, and it squeezes out the surplus you need for savings and a deposit.
If you want a quick litmus test, look at your last month of car-related spending. Add it all up. Most people are shocked when they see the real number.
A practical cap: buy what gets you to work, not applause
The goal is simple. You need reliable transport to earn money. You do not need a rolling status symbol that eats your future.
A useful rule is to cap your car spend to a level that matches your income and your actual needs. Aim for something safe, reliable, and cheap to run. Fewer bells and whistles. More “starts every morning”.
If you’re choosing between a fancy badge with high servicing costs and a boring model with cheaper parts and better reliability, boring usually wins. You’re not buying applause. You’re buying time and freedom.
City swaps that work: public transport, cycling, occasional car hire
If you live in a city or near decent transport, you might not need a car full-time. Even dropping to one car per household can be a massive win.
Options that save real money:
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Public transport for weekdays, rideshare only when you need it
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Cycling or an e-scooter for short commutes if it’s safe and practical
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Car hire for the odd weekend instead of owning a second vehicle
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Work-from-home days to cut fuel and parking without changing jobs
This is one of those decisions where convenience can cost you thousands a year. If you can handle a little inconvenience now, you buy yourself a much easier path to building a buffer and saving a deposit.
Food: the $25 lunch that steals your deposit
The weekly shop rule: plan once, buy once, waste less
Food is where budgets quietly fall apart. Not because you’re reckless, but because it’s daily, it’s easy to justify, and it’s usually happening when you’re tired and hungry.
The fix is not fancy. It’s one weekly shop, with a list, after you’ve eaten. Plan a handful of dinners you can repeat, grab lunch ingredients, and keep it simple. When you shop daily, you pay a convenience tax. When you shop weekly, you cut the impulse buys and you waste less because you actually use what’s in your fridge.
If you only take one move from this section, make it this: stop “figuring out food” every day. Decide once a week and coast.
Two-shop strategy: cheap staples first, top-ups second
If you want to shave real money off groceries without giving up everything you like, try a two-shop approach.
Shop one is for cheap staples: rice, pasta, oats, frozen veg, canned goods, eggs, bread, yoghurt, mince, chicken, and the basics you use all the time.
Shop two is for top-ups: the handful of items the cheaper place doesn’t have, plus fresh produce if you prefer it elsewhere.
It’s not about loyalty to a supermarket. It’s about getting the same meals for less. Even a small weekly saving adds up fast, especially when it stops the midweek “just grabbing a few things” shop that somehow costs $60.
Meal prep that doesn’t feel sad: leftovers, bulk buys, freezer wins
Meal prep has a bad reputation because people picture a week of dry chicken and broccoli. It doesn’t have to be like that.
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Cook once, eat twice: Make dinner with tomorrow’s lunch in mind. Pack leftovers before you sit down, so they don’t “disappear”.
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Bulk buys that make sense: Grab the items you always use in larger sizes. It’s less packaging, fewer trips, and usually cheaper per serve.
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Freezer wins: Keep a stash of frozen veg, dumplings, berries, and a couple of quick meals for nights you’re tempted to order delivery.
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A cheap lunch default: Sandwiches, wraps, salads, or leftovers. Anything is better than a $25 food court habit five days a week.
That $25 lunch does not feel like much in the moment. But repeated often enough, it becomes weeks of rent, a chunk of your emergency fund, or a real step towards a deposit. The goal is not to never eat out. The goal is to stop paying premium prices for convenience when you’re trying to get ahead.
The small leaks: subscriptions, impulse buys and “softeners”
Cancel or downgrade what you don’t use (quarterly audit)
The danger with small expenses is they feel harmless. Ten bucks here, fifteen bucks there, then suddenly you’ve got five subscriptions, two memberships, three delivery apps, and you’re paying for “convenience” like it’s a second rent.
Do a quick audit once a quarter. Ten minutes. Bank statements open. Brutal honesty.
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Did I use this in the last month?
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Would I pay full price for it again today?
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Is there a cheaper plan that does the job?
If the answer is no, cancel it. If the answer is maybe, downgrade it. You’re not banning fun. You’re removing the stuff you’re not even enjoying.
If you want to get ahead, cut back where it actually counts
Some spending habits don’t just slow you down, they keep you stuck. This is where being straight with yourself pays off.
If you’re trying to save a deposit, these three are worth a hard look:
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Smoking: A pack here and there turns into serious money across a month, plus it can hit your health and energy, which affects everything else.
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Drinking: A couple at home is one thing. Regular nights out add up fast once you factor in drinks, food, rideshares, and “might as well” spending.
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Gambling: Even small bets can become a weekly habit, and the maths is simple. The house is built to win.
No judgement. Plenty of people do all three. But if your goal is to build wealth on an average income, these are the easiest places to find big savings without touching rent.
A good rule is to translate the habit into weeks of progress. If cutting one habit frees up $50 a week, that’s $2,600 a year. If it frees up $150 a week, that’s $7,800 a year. That’s the difference between “we’ll see” and “we’re actually getting there.
Step one: build an emergency buffer so life doesn’t wipe you out
The 1-month goal, then 3-month goal (based on expenses)
Before you worry about investing or deposits, get a buffer in place. Not because it’s exciting, but because it stops one bad week from wrecking three good months.
Start with a simple target based on your actual expenses, not your income.
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Goal 1: one month of expenses
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Goal 2: three months of expenses
Keep it straightforward. Work out your essentials for a month, then treat the emergency buffer like a bill you pay yourself every week until it’s done.
The one rule: it’s for emergencies, not lifestyle splurges
An emergency buffer only works if it stays boring.
It’s not for holidays, concerts, weekend trips, a new phone, or “I’ll pay it back later”. That’s how buffers disappear.
Use it for genuine emergencies: job loss, urgent car repairs, medical costs, or a necessary home expense. If you dip into it, rebuild it. No guilt, no drama, just reset and keep going.
Once you’ve got that safety net, everything else gets easier. You stop relying on credit, you stop fearing surprise bills, and you can start building towards a deposit with confidence.
Step two: turn surplus into a deposit plan
Start with the property price, add costs, then work backwards
Most people try to “save a deposit” without ever pricing the target. That’s like trying to train for a marathon without knowing the distance.
Start with a rough property price for the areas you’d actually live in. Then add the extra costs people forget until it hurts, like stamp duty (where it applies), legal and conveyancing, building and pest reports, lender fees, moving costs, and a small buffer so you are not flat broke on settlement week.
Once you’ve got a total number, work backwards:
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What deposit do you want or need?
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How much can you save each week?
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How many months does that take?
When you can see the timeline, saving stops feeling endless and starts feeling like a plan.
Automate it: weekly transfers so willpower isn’t the strategy
Willpower is unreliable, especially when life gets busy.
Set up an automatic transfer on payday. Weekly works well because it matches how most people feel their cash flow. Treat it like rent. It leaves first, not last. Even better if it goes into a separate account so it’s harder to “accidentally” spend.
If your surplus changes month to month, keep the auto amount conservative, then top it up when you have a good week. Consistency beats big bursts that burn you out.
Where FHSS and low-deposit options fit (and where they don’t)
If you’re a first home buyer, there are a few pathways that can help, but they are not magic.
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FHSS-style strategies can suit people who are disciplined and want to build a deposit in a structured way. They come with rules, limits, and timing, so they reward planners and punish last-minute decisions.
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Low-deposit options can help you get in sooner, but “sooner” often comes with trade-offs like lender’s mortgage insurance, tighter serviceability, and less room for rate rises or life surprises.
The sweet spot is using these options as tools, not shortcuts. If the numbers stack up and you still have a buffer, great. If the deal only works when nothing goes wrong, it’s not a plan, it’s a gamble.
Mini playbook: a 30-day reset you can actually stick to
Week 1: Track spending and set the “big three” targets
For seven days, do nothing heroic. Just track what you spend. Use your banking app, notes app, whatever makes it easy. Your only job is to get the truth on paper.
Then set targets for the big three:
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Housing: your weekly rent or mortgage cap
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Transport: your weekly car or commute cap
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Food: your weekly groceries plus eating out cap
Keep the targets realistic. You’re not trying to “win budgeting”. You’re trying to create surplus cash without breaking your life.
Week 2: Cut rent, transport, food costs (pick two wins)
Pick two areas to tackle first. Two is enough. Three can feel like punishment.
Examples of wins that actually move the needle:
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Housing: negotiate a cheaper place, take a flatmate, move slightly further out, or switch to a smaller place
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Transport: pause the upgrade, sell the second car, refinance out of a painful repayment, or switch to public transport a few days a week
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Food: weekly shop with a list, take lunch to work, and set a hard cap on takeaway and delivery
Choose the moves that save at least $50 to $150 a week. Tiny changes are fine, but big levers build momentum fast.
Week 3: Build buffer, automate savings
Now you’ve freed up some cash, give it a job.
Step one is your emergency buffer. Start by aiming for one month of expenses, then build towards three months over time.
Step two is automation. Set a weekly transfer on payday into a separate savings account. If the money leaves before you can spend it, you don’t need constant self-control.
If your weeks vary, automate a minimum amount, then add extra in good weeks. The habit is the win.
Week 4: Map deposit target to suburbs and borrowing power
This is where things get real.
Take your weekly savings number and translate it into a timeline. Then match that timeline to the areas you actually want to live in.
This is also the moment to get clear on borrowing power. Many people guess and either aim too low or aim at something that will never happen. A simple check of your income, expenses, and existing debts gives you a more accurate range.
Once you can see the link between your savings rate, your borrowing power, and the suburbs you’re targeting, you stop drifting. You start making decisions with purpose. That’s the whole point of the 30-day reset.
FAQs
How much of my income should go to rent in Australia?
A common benchmark is the 30% rule, meaning you try to keep rent at 30% or less of your income. It’s a guide, not a rule of life, and it’s harder to hit in tight rental markets. Still, it’s useful because once rent pushes well past 30%, saving gets tough fast.
How long does it take to save a deposit on an average income?
It varies by city, price point, and how much you can save each week. As a ballpark, one Australian analysis put it at around 5.6 years nationally to save a typical deposit, with big differences between states. Use it as a reality check, then run your own numbers based on your weekly surplus.
Is the First Home Super Saver Scheme worth it?
It can be, if you are eligible and you like structured saving. The FHSS lets you make voluntary contributions and later apply to release amounts for a first home, with limits of $15,000 per financial year and $50,000 across all years for eligible contributions counted towards the maximum release. It’s not a shortcut, it’s a tool with rules, so it suits planners.
Should I invest in ETFs while saving for a deposit?
Think timeline first. If you’re aiming to buy soon (roughly the next 1 to 2 years), volatility can hurt if markets fall right when you need the cash. If your timeline is longer, investing may make sense for part of your savings, but only if you’re comfortable with ups and downs.
What’s a sensible emergency fund amount?
Start with one month of essential expenses, then build towards three months. It’s your buffer for job changes, surprise bills, or urgent repairs, so you don’t end up using debt and losing momentum.
How can AbodeFinder help me work out what I can afford?
AbodeFinder can model your borrowing power and likely repayments based on your income, expenses and debts, then show which suburbs and price ranges fit your numbers so you’re not guessing.
Can AbodeFinder help if I’m not ready to buy yet?
Yes. If you’re 6 to 24 months out, AbodeFinder can map a deposit target and timeline, stress-test scenarios (rate rises, rent changes), and help you set a clear plan so you know what to do next.
Do I have to get a loan through AbodeFinder to use the research?
No. You can use the suburb and affordability insights to guide your search either way, then decide what loan support you want later.
Conclution
You can’t control property prices or interest rates, but you can control your choices and your numbers. Nail the basics, create weekly surplus, build your buffer, then turn saving into an automatic habit. That’s how “one day” becomes a date on the calendar.
If you want to see what you can borrow and which suburbs match your budget, AbodeFinder can model scenarios using data and AI, then help you line up the right loan path.
